Aspyn Ovard Says She's Looking for Someone Who 'Doesn't Lie,' Won't 'Gaslight' Her, 6 Months After Divorce

Mar. 15, 2025

Aspyn Ovard.Photo:Aspyn Ovard/Instagram

Aspyn Ovard/Instagram

Aspyn Ovardknows what she wants in a partner.

The YouTube personality opened up in a since-deletedTikTokabout the character traits she’s looking for in her next relationship, six months after she filed for divorce from her husband Parker Ferris on April 1.

The mom of three, 28, went right into the characteristics she thought of “off the top of [her head],” noting the first is “someone who doesn’t lie.” She explained, “I know it seems like an obvious one, but imagine if they lied for like 10 years or something? Imagine how crazy?”

Aspyn Ovard and Parker Ferris.Aspyn Ovard/Instagram

As for the second trait, Ovard said, “I would love someone who has a job. I think that would be really nice — and bonus points if they would actually financially contribute.” She continued, “What else? If they didn’t accuse me of cheating on them all the time.”

Ovard hasn’t yet revealed details on why she filed for divorce since doing so on the same day sheannounced she’d welcomed her third child with Ferris. She explained in August why she opted against discussing the topic in the months that followed.

“You see how I considered my children and how it would affect them to have their family’s personal information shared all over the Internet? Very smart, very good mom,” she said at the time while holding her newborn in the video.

Aspyn Ovard and Parker Ferris with their kids.Aspyn Ovard/Instagram

While Ovard did not share additional details on the divorce in that August video, she said she would “continue to stay unbothered and not share anything to protect my peace.” Meanwhile, commenters are now speculating that her latest TikTok is a subtle hint at the reasons that led to her split.

In the TikTok posted on Oct. 6, Ovard added that she was looking for someone “who carries their fair share of the mental load” in life. She listed “raising kids and running a household” as examples. “If I didn’t have to do almost all of that myself, like if they wanted to contribute,” she clarified.

Ovard said it would be “super cool” if her next relationship involved someone who “didn’t gaslight” her, rather “better” her life instead. Someone who is “trying to improve their life and eat healthy, be active, work on themselves and really bring something to the table” are a few of her other interests.

“I don’t know, I feel like my bar is kind of low,” the mom influencer continued. “Those are just again, off the top of my head … a couple random little things that I thought of.” She concluded, “Crossing my fingers for next time.”

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Aspyn Ovard.Aspyn Ovard/Instagram

Ferris and Ovard married when they were 19 and 20 years old, respectively. The two tied the knot in St. George, Utah, in an outdoor ceremony in 2015.

While Ovard has kept her reasoning for the divorce private, she opened up about her relationship status when speaking on thePretty Basic Podcastin September. She also reiterated the importance of prioritizing her children’s privacy.

“In terms of a relationship status, it’s weird for me to say ‘I’m single’ because I have not said that since I was 17 years old,” she said on the show. “So really I’ve never even been single as an adult ever … so it’s a different era that I’m going into,” she revealed.

source: people.com