It all started when Summer Waters Pfleger’s mom spotted a handsome man behind the hotel reception desk and instantly thought he was boyfriend material for her daughter.
“She definitely encouraged me,” Summer Waters Pfleger, 20, tells PEOPLE. “I had walked past him so many times and smiled at him. My mom was like, you either have to get his phone number or quit talking about it.”
Another thing he couldn’t imagine? Summer’s videos about their romancegoing viral on TikTok.
Ethan, left and Summer, right.Courtesy Summer Waters Pfleger
Courtesy Summer Waters Pfleger
Call it fate or faith, Summer knows everything aligned for a reason and it wasn’t long before she and her mom spotted Ethan — and started planning the best way to get his attention.
Like the fork story.
In an effort to get sparks to fly, Summer went downstairs to ask him for a fork knowing full well where they were kept. She expected him to walk over to get her a fork, while they would engage in some light flirting.
“We had forks at the front desk, but it was opposite of where I was so I was like ‘It’s just over there,’ “ he says, pointing to them before later realizing it was just a way to talk to him.
Summer’s mom waited in the elevator to get a report, only to learn that nothing happened. And that’s when mom told Summer she needed to be more direct.
Summer, left and Ethan Pfleger were married on Aug. 10, 2024.Sara The Velvet Bee
Sara The Velvet Bee
Summer began recording their courtship even before there was a courtship, and what ensued is enshrined on her TikTok. After her mom dared her to talk to him, she called down to the front desk to ask his name. Ethan also gave her his phone number, which led to her calling him. He, in turn, asked her out for coffee.
“That night one of the first questions he asked was if I go to church, and that’s something really important to me,” Summer says. “We spent almost four hours on our first date. We closed down the coffee house, then sat outside and talked for at least two hours more.”
The two became inseparable and soon became “fork official”.
“I went on Etsy and had a fork engraved with ‘Will you be my girlfriend?' with the date on it,” Ethan says. ”I said this is something you asked me for a long time ago and I didn’t give it to you.’’
The Just Married and Will You Be My Girlfriend forks.Courtesy Summer Waters Pfleger
And when Summer turned 20 at the end of last December, Ethan asked her to marry him. The two continued with their studies, with Ethan pursuing an online degree at the University of Southern Mississippi in construction management while working first at the hotel and later for another company.
Summer, who had been participating in pageants and had even auditioned forAmerican Idol, has set her eye on a career in country music.
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Ethan fully supports her entertainment aspirations (although he admits he’s more of a rock guy), but says he isn’t really interested in being a social influencer.
“I’ve dabbled with Instagram, nothing serious and I don’t keep up with people,” he says. “But with Summer’s video coming out and it getting big, it’s very wild to me. I have no concept of that reality.”
He says he didn’t even know she was going to post them until their wedding day on Aug. 10. On their honeymoon, Summer says she nervously waited to see what the reaction would be from the videos when she finally posted her “wedding in a year” saga.
“The first day of our honeymoon, I posted it and looked at him and said I’d be shamed if this video didn’t blow up seeing I spent a whole year making it,” she says. “Then I woke up the next day and the video is taking off. This is wild.”
Ethan, left, with Summer on the beach.Courtesy Summer Waters Pfleger
Now, Ethan is starting to dip his toes into social media more, although he still plans on taking a back seat.
“I’ll never forget when he finally downloaded TikTok back because of all this happening,” Summer says. “Once my video blew up, then he got an account so he could kind of watch and now he’s the one coming up with things.”
Ethan adds that a good thing about sharing their story is giving others a glimpse of finding love for themselves.
“I really didn’t have that much faith in the dating world,” Ethan says. “So hopefully this will get someone else to ask for that fork, or whatever, so they can be able to find love.”
“I’m excited to grow up and grow with him. I’ve always looked for an old-time love and I feel like we have that,” adds Summer. “I feel like us meeting at such a young age and being able to grow up together is going to be really fun.”
source: people.com