Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade's Relationship Timeline

Mar. 15, 2025

Gabrielle UnionandDwyane Wadehave never been afraid to keep it real when it comes to their relationship.

The couple met in February 2007 but didn’t start dating for another two years. When they first crossed paths, Union hadrecently divorcedher first husband, former NFL player Chris Howard, and Wade was still married to his then-wife, Siohvaughn Funches, with whom he shares two children, Zaya and Zaire.

Union and Wade went public with their relationship in 2010 andtied the knotin 2014. Union became astepmomto Wade’s two children with Funches, and his son Xavier. Wade is also the guardian of his nephew Dahveon Morris. In November 2018, the couple welcomed their first child together: daughterKaavia James.

From raising theirblended familyto co-authoring a children’s book together, here’s everything to know about Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade’s relationship.

February 4, 2007: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade meet for the first time at a Super Bowl party

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To hear Union tell it, when the couple first met at aSuper Bowlparty in 2007, where they were both tapped to co-host, it was hardly love at first sight. According toE! News, Union toldEssencethat sparks weren’t exactly flying when the two first crossed paths.

“I stayed on one side of the room with my people,” Union recalled. “We like to party and he doesn’t drink at all. He was on the other side of the room holding bible study.”

In 2014, she got even more candid about their initial interaction, tellingGlamour, “When I met Dwyane, his résumé looked like crap: athlete, going through a divorce, nine years younger than me. None of that screamed, ‘Let’s have a lasting relationship.’ "

However, after going through a “heart-crushing breakup,” Union decided to give Wade a chance.

July 17, 2010: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade take their romance public

Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade.Michael Loccisano/Getty Images for GQ

Union and Wade firststarted datingin 2009, but they didn’t appear together publicly until July 2010. The duo posed for photos together at the Summer Groove Benefit Dinner in Hollywood, Florida. Just two days later, the couple was seen engaging in a little courtside PDA at Wade’sAll-Star basketball gameat Miami’s AmericanAirlines Arena.

January 24, 2012: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade pose for the cover ofEssence

The couple appeared on theFebruary 2012 coverofEssencetogether, but they weren’t hearing wedding bells just yet.

“We’re not rushing it,” Wade told the magazine. “Both of us have been married before, and we understand that if we choose to marry again, we want it to be right. We both took failing at marriage hard. The next time it’s gotta be forever.”

January 2013: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade briefly split

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In early 2013, the couple briefly parted ways due to their busy schedules.

TheBring It Onalum got candid about their split the following year, tellingGlamour, “When Dwyane and I broke up briefly in 2013, it was because of distance and scheduling. I finished filming [Being Mary Jane], then I flew to Vegas right away to start shootingThink Like a Man Too. I couldn’t take time off, and I missed some quality togetherness we desperately needed … Moving forward, I decided my work schedule has to make sense for our family.”

It was later revealed that Wade hadfathered a childwithBasketball Wivesstar, Aja Metoyerin, during the couple’s break.

December 21, 2013: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade announce their engagement

Dwayne Wade, Gabrielle Union.Shareif Ziyadat/FilmMagic

Wadeshared the same photowith the caption, “She said YES!!! @gabunion.”

As Union laterrecounted onGood Morning America, the basketball star had recruited his kids to be part of the proposal.

“They were like, ‘We wanna do a presentation for you.’ They like to do skits and songs and stuff, so we turn around, and they’re like, ‘Okay, we’re ready!’ and I turned back around and all the boys were holding up signs that said, ‘Will you marry us?’ " Union said, admitting that she didn’t think the proposal was “serious” at first, since Wade’s children had been asking the couple to get married for two years.

Then she says she saw Wade down on one knee with a ring in his hand. “And I was like, ‘Oh, this is serious! This is a thing! Yes! Of course, yes!’ " she recalled.

February 2014: Gabrielle Union gets candid about the couple’s prenup

On theArsenio Hall Show, Union admitted that it was important to her for the couple to sign a prenup before their nuptials.

“The biggest difference between this and the last marriage will be a prenup — at my insistence,” she said. “When you have your own stuff, you don’t need to worry about anyone else’s stuff. So everyone should go into the relationship knowing, ‘I’m here for you and you’re here for me.’ And the reality is I’ve never seen Dwyane balance a checkbook, so I gotta protect my stuff. It’s the wave of the future.”

August 30, 2014: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade get married in Miami

Dwyane Wade and Gabrielle Union on their wedding day with his kids and nephew in 2014.© Bob Metelus

August 31, 2014: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade go on a globetrotting honeymoon

Just a day after exchanging vows, the newlyweds chronicled theirthree-part honeymoonon Instagram, spending time on a “deserted island” in the Maldives before going on safari in Africa’s Serengeti. Their final stop was in the Seychelles islands.

October 2017: Gabrielle Union opens up about their fertility struggles

In aPEOPLE exclusive excerptfrom her book,We’re Going to Need More Wine, Union opened up about the fertility issues she’d been struggling with for years, experiencing “eight or nine miscarriages” due to adenomyosis, a uterine condition similar to endometriosis.

“For three years, my body has been a prisoner of trying to get pregnant — I’ve either been about to go into an IVF cycle, in the middle of an IVF cycle, or coming out of an IVF cycle,” she wrote.

Despite her struggles, however, Union said that she and Wade “remain bursting with love and ready to do anything to meet the child we’ve both dreamed of.”

November 7, 2018: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade welcome their first child together

On Nov. 7, 2018, Union and Wade welcomed their first child together via surrogate. The couple announced the birth of theirdaughter Kaavia JamesonInstagram, sharing sweet photos from her arrival.

Of her daughter’s journey into the world, theShe’s All Thatstartold Oprah Winfreyin December 2018: “We want her to understand that she was so loved, wanted, desired, protected, and nurtured when she was just a thought,” Union said. “We want her to know everything it took to bring her into this world, usually around the time she starts talking back. We want her to really understand what we went through.”

November 27, 2019: Dwyane Wade supports Gabrielle Union amid herAmerica’s Got Talentdeparture

After hercontroversial departurefromAGT, Wade publicly defended his wifein a series of tweets, writing that he was proud of Union for “standing up for what she stands for.”

Union hadalleged that she was firedfrom the show due to “her refusal to remain silent in the face of a toxic culture.” In September 2020, the actress and NBCannouncedthey had “reached an amicable resolution.”

February 11, 2020: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade publicly support daughter Zaya

Dwyane Wade, Zaya Wade and Gabrielle Union.Andrew Toth/Getty

After Wade’s daughter Zaya came out as transgender, both he and Unionsupported her publicly and privatelyduring herpersonal journey.

Wadeopened upabout the moment Zaya came out during an interview withEllen DeGeneres. “Zaya, our 12-year-old, came home and said, ‘Hey, so I want to talk to you guys. I think going forward, I’m ready to live my truth. And I want to be referenced as she and her. I’d love for you guys to call me Zaya,’ " he said.

In aPEOPLE exclusive interviewthat same month, the proud dad got candid about loving and supporting all of his children exactly as they are. “As I’m raising [Zaya], as I’m raising my kids, you just try to put them in the best situations to be able to succeed in life,” Wade shared. “How I do that, and how me and my wife decide to do that, may be different than another family, but we want them to know there’s always unconditional love, that it will always be support.”

“We’ve got you, no matter what. And we see you,” he added. “I see you how you see you.”

Union also made a statementon Twitter, writing: “Meet Zaya. She’s compassionate, loving, whip-smart and we are so proud of her. It’s OK to listen to, love & respect your children exactly as they are. Love and light good people.”

Zaya sharing her story marked the beginning of theUnion-Wade family’spublic LGBTQ advocacy, for which they were honored as part ofTimeMagazine’s 100 Most Influential People of 2020.

May 6, 2020: Gabrielle Union releases a children’s book celebrating surrogacy

Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade with daughter Kaavia.Jesse D. Garrabrant/NBAE via Getty

“I wanted to create a love letter to my daughter to let her know that even though her entry into our family was a bit non-traditional, we love her and wanted her,” Uniontold PEOPLE. “And she is celebrated.”

December 14, 2020: Gabrielle Union reveals she experiences PTSD after sexual assault

During the premiere episode of Facebook Watch’sPeace of Mind with Tarajiseries with Taraji P. Henson, Union opened up about being arape survivorand the PTSD she has suffered as a result.

“We are so conditioned that we know what someone looks like who has suffered from PTSD, we believe we know what rape victims look like and it’s not me,” she shared.

Union also discussed how her PTSD hasimpacted her relationship with Wade, particularly when she was attending therapy sessions at home during the pandemic.

“I just feel a little bit more naked, exposed,” said Union, who has been in therapy since she was 19. “Because I am just on Zoom with the therapist and I can hear the household, and then the doors open and … there is not enough space, you know what I mean, and that kind of worries me sometimes. You know when people are like, ‘You gotta keep the mystery about yourself. Don’t tell him everything.’ I’m like, ‘Well, s— then, the pandemic, you got the whole thing.'”

She continued, “So you have to find out: ‘Do you love me for all of … the baggage?’ "

April 29, 2021: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade share what makes their marriage work

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Ahead of the couple’sseven-year wedding anniversary, Wadespoke to PEOPLEabout what makes his marriage with Union work.

“It’s about learning about each other, learning what she wants for her life and for her career and trying to support all those things,” he said.

Union echoed those sentiments, adding, “This is both of our second marriages, and we’re super transparent about that. We didn’t do it right, the first time around. There’s another way — to be more collaborative and equitable. We humble ourselves, listen and we meet in the middle.”

May 18, 2021: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade release a children’s book together

Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade with daughter Kaavia.Gabrielle Union/Instagram

September 12, 2021: Gabrielle Union opens up about the “hard truth” of her surrogacy journey

She also spoke about the “trauma” of learning about Wadefathering a childduring their split. “It should go without saying that we were not in a good place at the time that child was conceived,” Union wrote. “But we were doing much better when he finally told me about the pregnancy. To say I was devastated is to pick a word on a low shelf for convenience.”

She added, “There are people — strangers I will never meet — who have been upset that I have not previously talked about that trauma. I have not had words, and even after untold amounts of therapy I am not sure I have them now.”

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“Family Over Everything. #CheaperByTheDozen,” Union captioned a photo of the foursome posing before the event.

May 2, 2022: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade attend the 2022 Met Gala

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Union and Wade hit the2022 Met Galared carpetin complimentary looks, both donning Versace ensembles paired with Tiffany & Co. jewelry. Union sparkled in a silver, plunging gown from the Italian fashion house with a stunning embellished feathered train and a red floral accent around her waist. She got teary eyed while explaining the inspiration behind the dress.

August 19, 2022: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade share steamy pictures from their child-free vacation

In a carousel ofInstagram photos, Union shared sultry snaps of her and Wade on a yacht whilevacationing in Spain. One photo features Wade playfully nestled in Union’s chest, while a second shows the former athlete snapping his own photo with a digital camera. The post, which Wade shared to his own story, also includes a steamy photo of Union leaning up against Wade on the boat’s railing.

Union captioned the photos with, “It’s begun. 🇪🇸🇪🇸🇪🇸🛥🛥🛥#WadeWorldTour2022.”

Earlier in the week, Union made it clear the romantic outing was a kids-free trip,sharing a hilarious videoof her and Wade’s 3-year-old daughter Kaavia James being told she wasn’t joining the lovebirds on their vacation.

In the video, Kaavia made snarky faces as Unionsaidin a voiceover: “When your child finds out that you’re going on vacation but they’re not invited.” Union laughed and added, “Stay mad, Jan, stay mad.”

September 8, 2022: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade attend the Toronto International Film Festival premiere of her new film

Dressed to the nines, Union and Wade attended the premiere ofThe Inspectionat TIFF. The couple walked the red carpet together in black ensembles: Wade wore a tuxedo with silk lapels, while Union stunned in a sleeveless gown with a thigh-high slit.

September 20, 2022: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade appear onThe Kelly Clarkson Show

While chatting withKelly Clarkson, Union and Wade candidly (and lovingly) shared theirrelationship pet peeves.

“My wife stopped driving a few years ago. She got into a few fender-benders,” he explained. “I was all for it, so I drive. When she gets in the passenger seat, she tells me how to drive, all the time.”

Union then jumped in to tell Clarkson about Wade’s snoring.

“He snores. But it’s not just enough that he snores, he brings our dog, Trey, who’s a little Frenchie, [into the bedroom], and they snore together,” she said. “It’s like a symphony of snoring.”

November 11, 2022: Gabrielle Union shares Dwyane Wade’s romantic new ink

Union shared a video of herself reacting toWade’s new wrist tattoo, which served as a sweet surprise to mark her 50th birthday. In the clip, Union shows Wade’s ink, which features the outline of a heart next to her initials “GU.” The actress then smiles in the tattoo parlor and walks over to kiss her husband.

“The moment you find out your man has made you his 17th tattoo. @dframeddanewade made his best bday surprise for #SouthAfrica WadeWorldTour2022 edition #Capetown Part 4,” Union wrote inthe caption.

December 1, 2022: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade attend opening night ofAin’t No Mo’in New York City

Union and Wadeattended opening night of the Broadway showAin’t No Mo’at the Belasco Theatre. TheBring It Onstar, who helped produce the play, stunned in a black Giorgio Armani dress, while Wade looked effortlessly handsome in a Canali jacket and maroon pants.

January 23, 2023: Gabrielle Union throws Dwyane Wade a 41st birthday bash

Union hosted an evening of dinner and dancing in honor of Wade’s birthday. The guest list includedCorey Gamble, Essence Atkins andQueen Latifah.

“Any chance to celebrate you, know that I’ll be the loudest one cheering!” theBring It Onstar captioned a series of photos and videos from the birthday bash onInstagram.

March 12, 2023: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade attend theVanity FairOscars party

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May 1, 2023: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade attend the Met Gala

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May 15, 2023: Gabrielle Union says she and Dwyane Wade split their bills 50/50

During an interview on theBlack Millionairespodcast, Union revealed that she and Wade share an equal burden when it comes to household finances.

“In this household,we split everything fifty-fifty,” she said. “But in the other households that each of us have to support, there’s always this like, gorilla on your back, that’s like, ‘You better work, b—, you better work. Oh, you’re going to sleep in?’ You know, somebody might not eat.”

Union explained that she’s working to overcome her “scarcity mindset” from when she was a struggling actress in Hollywood.

“I think I just have more responsibilities for my money. I get nervous like, ‘Oh God, that movie didn’t open. Am I going to have enough to hold everybody up?’ "

June 12, 2023: Dwyane Wade opens up about his and Gabrielle Union’s finances

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“I said something about it being my house that I paid for. My wife looked at me and said ‘you will never say that to me again when it’s something that we share,’ " Wade told host Shannon Sharpe. “So when we moved to [Los Angeles], my wife said ‘I got half on it you will never say my house again — you can say that in the arena!’ "

August 6, 2023: Dwyane Wade and Gabrielle Union attend the FWRD party in Los Angeles

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The couple stepped out in coordinating ensembles for theFWRD partyin West Hollywood, which was held in honor of Wade’s induction into the Naismith Memorial Basketball Hall of Fame. The celebrity guest list includedQueen Latifah,Quinta Brunson,Tracee Ellis RossandKeyshia Cole.

August 12, 2023: Dwayne Wade mentions Gabrielle Union in his hall of fame speech

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During his Naismith Memorial Basketball Hall of Fameacceptance speech, Wade gave Union a sweet shout-out.

“My wife, Gab, thank you for making our house a home,” he said. “Thank you for making sure our kids feel seen, heard and protected when I’m not around.”

Wade continued: “Thank you for being on this journey with me these past 15 years. Thank you for learning to love my imperfections, just as much as we enjoyed and love the moments of perfection. I love you.”

January 17, 2024: Gabrielle Union celebrates Dwyane Wade’s 42nd birthday

In honor of her husband’s birthday, Unionthrew Wade a partyin Miami and gave him a sweet shout-out onInstagram.

“You are a gift to me, your family and everyone you encounter,” the actress wrote. “Your purpose is rooted in the divine. May the blessings on blessings rain down on you. Love you Bay.”

August 30, 2024: Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade celebrate 10 years of marriage

source: people.com