Jennifer Lopez Filing for Divorce from Ben Affleck on Their Wedding Anniversary 'Speaks a Ton,' Says Source (Exclusive)

Mar. 15, 2025

Jennifer Lopezmoved to formally endher marriagetoBen Affleckon a significant date — the second anniversary of their Southern wedding.“She was done waiting and the date she did it speaks a ton,” says a source of Lopez, 55, who filed for divorce on Tuesday, Aug. 20, without a lawyer.The move “gives her control of the process,” adds the source. “It’s good that she did it.“Another Lopez insider echoed the sentiment, underscoring that the superstar is ready to move on. “She tried really hard to make things work and is heartbroken,” says the insider. “The kids are a top priority, as they always have been.”The singer is mom to 16-year-old twinsMax and Emme(with ex-husbandMarc Anthony) and Affleck shares three children, Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 12, with his ex-wife Jennifer Garner.In her divorce filing, Lopez listed the couple’s date of separation as April 26, 2024. She and Affleck, 52, legallymarriedin July 2022 during a surprise wedding at A Little White Wedding Chapel in Las Vegas just a few months following their April 2022engagement.“We did it. Love is beautiful. Love is kind. And it turns out love is patient. Twenty years patient,” Lopez wrote to fans in her July 17, 2022 On the JLo newsletter, referencing their firstbreakup in 2004.Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez attend the red carpet of the movie “The Last Duel” during the 78th Venice International Film Festival on September 10, 2021.Pascal Le Segretain/GettyA month after the Vegas wedding, they then held alarger wedding ceremony in Georgiaon the grounds of Affleck’s 87-acre compound outside Savannah in August 2022. It was a star-studded affair, drawing Affleck’s pals Matt Damon and Kevin Smith, among others.When sharing photos with fans, again through her newsletter,Lopez wrote of rekindling with Affleck, “Some old wounds were healed that day and the weight of the past finally lifted off our shoulders. Full-circle — and not at all the way we planned it. Better.“PEOPLE first reported in May that Affleck and Lopez wereliving apart. In the months since, the pair were rarely seen together and were photographedwith and without their wedding bands.

Jennifer Lopezmoved to formally endher marriagetoBen Affleckon a significant date — the second anniversary of their Southern wedding.

“She was done waiting and the date she did it speaks a ton,” says a source of Lopez, 55, who filed for divorce on Tuesday, Aug. 20, without a lawyer.

The move “gives her control of the process,” adds the source. “It’s good that she did it.”

Another Lopez insider echoed the sentiment, underscoring that the superstar is ready to move on. “She tried really hard to make things work and is heartbroken,” says the insider. “The kids are a top priority, as they always have been.”

The singer is mom to 16-year-old twinsMax and Emme(with ex-husbandMarc Anthony) and Affleck shares three children, Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 12, with his ex-wife Jennifer Garner.

In her divorce filing, Lopez listed the couple’s date of separation as April 26, 2024. She and Affleck, 52, legallymarriedin July 2022 during a surprise wedding at A Little White Wedding Chapel in Las Vegas just a few months following their April 2022engagement.

“We did it. Love is beautiful. Love is kind. And it turns out love is patient. Twenty years patient,” Lopez wrote to fans in her July 17, 2022 On the JLo newsletter, referencing their firstbreakup in 2004.

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez attend the red carpet of the movie “The Last Duel” during the 78th Venice International Film Festival on September 10, 2021.Pascal Le Segretain/Getty

Pascal Le Segretain/Getty

A month after the Vegas wedding, they then held alarger wedding ceremony in Georgiaon the grounds of Affleck’s 87-acre compound outside Savannah in August 2022. It was a star-studded affair, drawing Affleck’s pals Matt Damon and Kevin Smith, among others.

When sharing photos with fans, again through her newsletter,Lopez wrote of rekindling with Affleck, “Some old wounds were healed that day and the weight of the past finally lifted off our shoulders. Full-circle — and not at all the way we planned it. Better.”

PEOPLE first reported in May that Affleck and Lopez wereliving apart. In the months since, the pair were rarely seen together and were photographedwith and without their wedding bands.

source: people.com