Jesse Metcalfe Says Dating Someone Outside of the Entertainment Industry Offers ‘Good Balance’ (Exclusive)

Mar. 15, 2025

Helene Immel and Jesse Metcalfe at the EMA Awards Gala on Oct. 26, 2024.Photo:Amy Sussman/Getty

Amy Sussman/Getty

Jesse Metcalfeis not desperate to date someone in entertainment!

TheDesperate Housewivesalum, 45, and his girlfriend,Helene Immel, attendedCirque du Soleil’sKOOZApremiere on Thursday, Oct. 24, and he exclusively told PEOPLE how it feels dating the real estate agent.

“It’s always a good balance for someone in this crazy business to date someone outside of the entertainment industry,” Metcalfe emphasized at the red carpet event in Santa Monica, Calif.

Jesse Metcalfe and Helene Immel laugh together on Oct. 26, 2024.Amy Sussman/Getty

Although Immel has released music under the stage nameLenachkamany years ago, she now focuses her work in the real estate industry.

TheformerDancing with the Starscontestantand Immel have been dating since 2023. The pair went Instagram official on Metcalfe’s 45th birthday on Dec. 9, when she posted aphoto of them together on a hike.

Jesse Metcalfe and Helene Immel at Cirque du Soleil’s ‘KOOZA’ premiere on Oct. 24, 2024.Jerod Harris/Getty

Jerod Harris/Getty

Since then, theJohn Tucker Must Diestar and his girlfriend have attended several events together, including the Los Angeles Art Show’s opening night party on Valentine’s Day, an NFL game in September and the EMA Awards Gala on Saturday, Oct. 26, among other outings as a couple.

While at the Cirque du Soleil event, Metcalfe said they were “super excited to be here” after the brand invited them. “They’re incredible,” he added.

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Jesse Metcalfe and Helene Immel at the Chargers vs. Raiders game on Sept. 8, 2024.London Entertainment/GC Images

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He also revealed to PEOPLE he hasn’t watchedDesperate Housewives,which ran from 2004 to 2012 for eight seasons on ABC, for a long time.

”It’s been a minute — probably when it aired,” he admitted.

OnDesperate Housewives, Metcalfe played gardener John Rowland oppositeEva Longoria’s rich housewife character Gabrielle Solis.

Jesse Metcalfe and Helene Immel on Feb. 14, 2024.Amy Sussman/Getty

Asked whether he compares his abs from back then to now, the actor said, ”Yeah, I think I’m in better shape now. I sort of had that youthful, kind of thinner physique. I’ve since put on a couple pounds, but in a good way.”

Metcalfe also explained that staying fit keeps him mentally strong.

“The most important thing about [working out] for me is that it just kind of keeps my mind right,” he said. “On the days when I have a busy morning and I don’t get to the gym till the afternoon, I can feel that.

The star added, “It’s a stress reliever, and it’s always been an anchor for me, you know, since I started working out when I was 14 or 15.”

source: people.com