New Mom Asks Husband's Family to 'Stay Elsewhere' During 2-Month Visit. Then He Asks Her to Move Out

Mar. 15, 2025

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A new mom says she won’t allow her in-laws to stay at the home she shares with her husband for months at a time — now, he’s telling her to move out.

On their second trip, the in-laws visited for even longer, with the woman writing: “Husband informed me they’re coming and for longer than previously thought. No discussion with me. We had a huge fight before they arrived.”

Now, the in-laws are planning a third visit — and this time, the woman doesn’t want them staying with her family.

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But the husband doesn’t feel the same, which has ultimately led to an argument.

“This house is theirs and they gave it to him. Before we got married I made it clear I did not want to move in and wanted a place of our own. Husband told me that we’d get a place of our own and this was temporary then would make up all sorts of ridiculous reasons for why other homes weren’t suitable. Now he says he will never move and won’t compromise on the house,” she writes in the Reddit post.

Acknowledging that her home is technically her in-laws' home, the woman is now asking the Internet to weigh in.

One commenter suggested the woman try speaking to her in-laws, but added that her husband seems to be the one in the wrong.

“They sound utterly intrusive, and your husband should be standing up for you,” the commenter writes. “Staying for that amount of time is unreasonable. You need to be comfortable in your home.”

source: people.com