Prince Harry arrives at the High Court in London on June 7, 2023.Photo:James Veysey/Shutterstock
James Veysey/Shutterstock
On World Mental Health Day, Thursday, Oct. 10,Prince HarryjoinedThe Anxious Generationauthor and social psychologist, Jonathan Haidt, for a conversation about smartphones, social media and their impact on the youth population.
Haidt agreed with his observation, remarking that people born after 1995 who live in English-speaking countries hit puberty with high rates of anxiety, depression, self-harm and suicide as a direct consequence of the smartphone.
But Haidt doesn’t agree with that argument. “If there were some parents who were getting this wrong and most parents were getting it right, then I’d be very receptive to that argument,” he said. “But once kids get a phone and social media, the rest of family life turns into a fight over screen time. And this is happening everywhere.”
“The tech companies put us in a bind, and then they’re trying to blame us for what they did,” Haidt added.
Prince Harry arrives to the Royal Courts of Justice, Britain’s High Court, in central London on June 7, 2023.ADRIAN DENNIS/AFP via Getty Images
ADRIAN DENNIS/AFP via Getty Images
As their conversation continued, the Duke of Sussex, himself a father to son Archie, 5 and daughter Lilibet, 3, added that he’s learned fromThe Archewell Foundation Insight Sessionsthat parents want their children to have a phone, especially in case of emergency at school.
Haidt then responded, “Give them a phone. Just don’t give them a supercomputer connected to everyone in the world."
Harry also proposed the common misconception that Instagram, TikTok and Snapchat are “lifelines” and that social media “is giving an outlet, an added resource” to kids. Haidt explained that this is a common “myth,” noting that the solution for kids to feel more connected is to put their phones down and connect in person.
“The research, I think, is very clear: When kids have a best friend or especially a small group [of friends], they generally do well,” Haidt revealed. “When kids don’t have a close friend or close group, they’re much less likely to do well. When you have 300 connections, you don’t have time for anyone.”
Prince Harry in Koto Ward, Tokyo on Aug. 9, 2023.The Yomiuri Shimbun via AP Images
The Yomiuri Shimbun via AP Images
“This year, 2024, is the turning point. Terrible things have happened to our kids. We see that now… I don’t want to blame any parent because we didn’t know this 10 years ago,” Haidt concluded.
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The pair’s conversation follows Harry andMeghan Markle’s Archewell Foundation’s second edition of the Insight Report, which captured the “global youth perspective on technology’s evolving role,” per the foundation’ssite. The report worked with young people from Colombia, Georgia, India, Jamaica, Kenya, Nigeria, Turkey, the United Kingdom and the United States.
Last month, Harry spoke aboutthe dangers of social media, and children consuming online content for the Clinton Foundation.
source: people.com