Who Is Ralph Macchio's Wife? All About Phyllis Fierro

Mar. 15, 2025

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Phyllis Fierro and Ralph Macchio attend the premiere of “Gaslit” at Metropolitan Museum of Art on April 18, 2022 in New York City

BeforeRalph Macchiostole hearts as theKarate Kid, he was stealing someone else’s heart at a birthday party in Long Island, N.Y.

Macchio met his wife,Phyllis Fierro, when he was only 15 years old — before he became a household name. The couple have been married since 1987, and credit their long-lasting love to hard work and commitment.

The pair have two children:Julia and Daniel. Julia has followed in her dad’s Hollywood footsteps, acting alongside him in the hit Netflix showCobra Kai. Although Daniel hasn’t graced the screen yet, he’s partially named after his dad’s biggest role.

“My wife’s cousin Daniel was her best friend growing up. And yeah, for me the name Daniel will always mean something special,” Macchiotold PEOPLEof his son’s moniker. “My biggest accomplishment has been raising my family.”

To keep his family and work life balanced, Macchio has taken a “one foot in, one foot out” approach to Hollywood, and he credits his wife for making that possible.

“Without her and without the foundation and the family we established, ‘one foot in, one foot out’ would have been very, very difficult on my own,” Macchio told PEOPLE. “Because there would not be balance.”

So, who is Ralph Macchio’s wife of nearly four decades? Here’s everything to know about Phyllis Fierro.

She met Macchio when he was 15 years old

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Ralph Macchio and Phyllis Fierro at the Premiere of ‘Midnight Run’, Sutton Theater, New York City

Before he became theKarate Kid, Macchio had already met the love of his life in an unlikely place:his grandmother’s basement. Fierro was a guest at Macchio’s cousin’s birthday party, where the two met and instantly hit it off. The pair grew up in neighboring towns in Long Island.

“This is 1970 or whatever, so this is Cheez Doodles, 7Up, Tootsie Rolls, probably the Ruffles with onion dip,” Macchio said of the party where they met. “She was a friend of my cousin, and we just smiled and talked and danced a little. Probably the Hustle!”

“The first time I saw these big, dark brown eyes, I felt a natural bond,” Fierrotold PEOPLEin 2009.

She and Macchio got married in 1987

Ralph Macchio and Phyllis Fierro at the Premiere of ‘Lawrence of Arabia’ Restored Version, Century Plaza Cinema, Century City

Macchio and Fierro wed in August 1987, less than a year afterKarate Kid IIwas released.

“I would have to say my wife is my best friend,” Macchio saidin an interviewwithOne on One withJohn Teshin 1992. “There’s no doubt.”

He continued, “There’s just no one else I would even think about wanting to be with. From a very early time, I just knew this was the woman I wanted to marry and spend my life with. It’s corny, but it’s true.”

Macchio also revealed that he popped the question onValentine’s Day.

Now, together for nearly four decades, Macchio credits their enduring marriage to their “commitment” to one another.

“It’s the belief through the easy times, through the tough times, whatever we encounter, that we are meant to be together,” he toldPEOPLEin 2021. “We know that we will overcome all because we believe in that, the foundation of that.”

She and Macchio share two children

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Ralph Macchio and Phyllis Fierro with their kids

The couple’s first child, Julia Macchio, was born in 1992. They became a family of four with the birth of their son, Daniel Macchio, in 1996.

Julia, an aspiring actress, joined her dad onseason 4 ofCobra Kaiand played Vanessa, the cousin of Macchio’s character Daniel LaRusso. The father-daughter duo spoke exclusively to PEOPLE about their experience sharing the screen together in 2022.

“She knocked it out of the park,” Macchio said. “I was the proud father on set that day. As soon as she ran our first take, everybody was like, ‘Holy crap, she’s got this character.’ "

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Daniel has worked in sports throughout his career.He’s currentlya Business Intelligence & Analytics Manager for the New York Islanders. He also enjoys attending various sports events.

In April 2023, Danielposted a pictureon Instagram of his family at a New York Mets game along with the caption, “Epic weekend with the best fam ❤️.”

He is also very close to his family, often posting photos with them on Instagram. For his mom’s birthday in 2020, he posteda photo with Fierro. “Happy Birthday to the best mom ever! I love you till the numbers stop! ☺️❤️.”

She’s a nurse practitioner

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Phyllis Fierro and Ralph Macchio attend the 2022 Nickelodeon Kid’s Choice Awards at Barker Hangar on April 09, 2022 in Santa Monica, California

Fierro has worked as a nurse practitioner for years, including duringthe COVID-19 pandemic.

Julia continued: “Just wanted to express my deepest gratitude, not only for her, but for everyone working in healthcare. They teach us that kindness, dedication, selflessness and empathy are superpowers.”

“She’s the hero of the family that’s for sure,” Macchio said of his wife during a 2021virtual appearance onThe Drew Barrymore Show.

Daniel also shared his gratitude for Fierro inan Instagram postforMother’s Day. “Happy Mother’s Day to the best mom out there!” he wrote. “Love you so much and so proud of you for working on the front lines ❤️.”

She convinced Macchio to adopt their dog Oliver

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Phyllis Fierro and Ralph Macchio attend THE CINEMA SOCIETY & A DIAMOND IS FOREVER host the after party for “THE PRIVATE LIVES OF PIPPA LEE” at Ace Hotel The Breslin on November 15, 2009 in New York City

When the Macchio family lost their family dog, a Shih Tzu named Ginger, Macchio wasn’t sure if he could have another dog again.

“My kids' whole childhood was with this dog,” he told PEOPLE of Ginger. “So when she passed away, it was brutal.”

But then, Fierro sent him a photo of a Yorkshire terrier from a local rescue shelter, and his tune changed.

“I said, ‘Okay, let’s find out more information,’ " he recalled. “She brought me back there, and when he came out he started licking me and was looking right into my eyes. There was a connection immediately.”

The family adopted Oliver, and Macchio said he feels like he “lucked out” with his pup’s gentle disposition. “If anything, he’s a little needy,” Macchio joked to PEOPLE.

AlthoughThe Outsidersactor had never adopted an animal from a rescue shelter before, Macchio said he’s been “converted” since forming a special bond with Oliver.

“There are thousands if not more of these animals, so the concept of rescuing feels good, and as a family it feels like a positive thing,” he said. “It feels good to give this guy a happy home.”

She supported Macchio at his Hollywood Walk of Fame ceremony

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hyllis Fierro, actor/director Ralph Macchio, Daniel Macchio and Julia Macchio pose at Ralph Macchio’s new star on the Hollywood Walk Of Fame on November 20, 2024 in Hollywood, California.

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Macchio received astar on the Hollywood Walk of Famein November 2024. Fierro, Julia and Daniel were all in attendance at the big event.

During his acceptance speech, Macchio thanked his “beautiful wife” for all her support.

“I love you so much. Our partnership in life is everything,” he said. “None of this is happening without you. Thank you for choosing me. Life is all the richer to walk in lockstep with you.”

source: people.com